dating

Being a hetero woman feminist and the dating world can be a confusing and conflicting thing.  For example, today I was asked out by a classmate of mine.  He seems like a nice enough guy but I am not attracted to him.  Ironically enough he is in my Feminist Theory class.  So today he asks me if i have plans for this evening (and thank god i do) so I told him my plans and he replied by saying "oh well i was going to invite you to a comedy show and some drinks" or something to that effect.  I think he was going to do some stand up or something.  So i politely said "oh I'm sorry" and he was very nice about it.  So as I was walking away what instantly came to my mind was "oh shit what am I going to do if he asks me again?"  So my question would be pretty  much just that... as a feminist what do you do in that situation?? I want to be nice but I feel like no matter what I would say I would still feel like I'm being a bitch.  So to avoid the whole thing in general do I just run out of class before he does so theres no chance for him to ask me?? Or do I just woman up (yes WOMAN up) and just deal with it?? these are the questions that fill my mind!

Any comments or suggestions are always greatly appreciate it! :)

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This blog will attempt to bring to light questions that women, feminists, or people in general have about social situations or personal conflicts.  Any questions or things anyone would like to be brought up or discussed please feel free to ask.  Any feedback or answers to my questions are welcomed.  :)